A mother is at her wit's end over continued bullying of her child at East Three Secondary School.

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The bullying has eclipsed problems at school and come to her home, where youth have sent prank deliveries to her house, crank-called telling insults and lies, and even surrounded the house in an intimidating way.

Her daughter, a Grade 10 student whose name will be left out of this article, said it has been ongoing since Grade 8, when she started being made fun of for her appearance and the way she dressed.

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After a situation recently escalated to violence, she took a week off school. She has missed significant school time in the past two years because of the bullying.

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She recently confronted the bullies at night, which led to a scuffle. She says people at school have seen the bullying but no one has done anything, so she doesnSA国际影视传媒檛 talk about it anymore.

The mother, through tears, worries the violence will escalate. She has tried contacting the school, and other organizations but has not found a solution to her daughterSA国际影视传媒檚 problem.

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East Three Secondary School principal Gene Jenks declined to do an interview on bullying at the school.

He indicated it was something the school is currently dealing with.

The only quote he would provide is as follows: SA国际影视传媒淵ou can say that you've spoken to the school administration and that they are working hard to both stop the bullying and to educate the students on the importance of modeling respectful and welcoming behaviour.SA国际影视传媒�

Lesa Semmler, chair of the Inuvik District Education Authority, said these issues are dealt with by school administration, as theySA国际影视传媒檙e the ones who know the students and interact with them on a daily basis.

SA国际影视传媒淚 can say for sure the IDEA does not condone this and in our role can discuss ways with our administration to support them with any plans they may have with preventing bullying in our school,SA国际影视传媒� said Semmler. SA国际影视传媒淭he IDEA wants all students and staff to feel comfortable and safe in our school.SA国际影视传媒�

Beaufort Delta Education Council superintendent Chris Gilmour said schools in the territory have all-new tools to deal with bullying as of last year, when they were legislated to ensure they had safe school plans in all schools.

Gilmour said BDEC was fortunate to work with Ray Hughes, a nationally-recognized individual in this field, to implement guidelines and plans to deal with bullying in all BDEC schools.

Those documents define bullying, what to do about it, how to report and manage it and more.

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He said the biggest priority for the school district is to ensure the safety of all students all of the time, and he feels BDEC schools are better positioned now than they ever have been in being able to deal with bullying, though he admitted there is always room to improve.

Cheryl Zaw, executive director of the Inuvik Youth Centre, said there needs to be a culture shift to deal with bullying.

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In every instance of physical harm or harassment, the perpetrating youth should be confronted, she said, suggesting to ask what happened and how that youth felt during the bullying.

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The mother kept her child out of school for the entire week that the bullying recently escalated. SheSA国际影视传媒檚 desperate for help to bring life back to normal.