As we begin the countdown towards Christmas and the new year, a closer examination of ourselves should be taking a hold of us.

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This is where you as an individual, and perhaps one who has learned a few lessons in life, will come out of the 'box' and begin to reach out in patience and tolerance.

Yes, you have worked hard in attaining and accessing some of the luxuries of life, but think back to when you thought there was no hope or no progression and someone came along and lifted your eyes and head from despair and you determined that from now on you would think and be positive and make a concerted effort for your betterment and for those significant to you.

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Christmas is a time of giving and sharing. Entering the new year is a time of hope and looking forward to good things ahead for all, mom, dad and children, grandchildren along with our grandparents as well.

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!