Master-Corporal Darren Dungey and Second-Lieutenant Kristina Dungey are less than a year into their posting to Joint Task Force (North), but how they made it North together was born out of a tragic and life-altering turn of events.

Their story stems from an initial meeting they had in the summer of 2009 when their two fathers - both retired military servicemen and mutual friends - had a visit in the Ottawa area.

Despite the closeness of the two senior men, the future couple did not know one another. 

Darren and his father Robert, both avid motorcycle enthusiasts, decided to take a ride in the city to visit Kristina and her father. 

SA国际影视传媒淲e met and talked for a couple of hours and afterwards I was sort of kicking myself afterward and thinking that it was too bad that I didnSA国际影视传媒檛 get KristinaSA国际影视传媒檚 phone number,SA国际影视传媒� Darren recalled. 

The two were never sure when - or even if - they would see each other again. 

That same September, however, they would reconnect under tragic circumstances when Robert, while motorcycling on a back road outside the nationSA国际影视传媒檚 capital hit gravel and experienced a serious wipeout.

His injuries were life-threatening and he was taken immediately to the emergency room as a trauma patient at the Ottawa Civic Hospital. 

Kristina, who was studying as a paramedic at the time, happened to be working a working student on site when the man arrived. 

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SA国际影视传媒淚 was doing my consolidation at the hospital when Robert came in on a stretcher by ambulance.

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Darren and his mother arrived well into the night to see the very injured father. 

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Kristina had stayed at the hospital well into the night to ensure that she was able to communicate with the family so that they understood the extent of RobertSA国际影视传媒檚 injuries and how the patient was being cared for. 

SA国际影视传媒淚 wasn't going to leave his dad by himself until they were able to get there,SA国际影视传媒� she said. 

Robert eventually made a full recovery and it wasnSA国际影视传媒檛 until a few weeks after the accident where Darren and Kristina's relationship was cemented together for good.

For a second time, the two had not exchanged phone numbers or contact information.

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SA国际影视传媒淚 went online and researched Darren's name and looked up every possible Darren that I could possibly find. I found where he was working at the time and got a phone number associated with him and sent a text message to see if we could get by together to find out how his Dad was doing.SA国际影视传媒�

The two connected and spent some time together. Within three months he proposed and they were married on Oct. 30, 2010.

Joining the military

Kristina, then 29, graduated as a paramedic in 2010, fulfilling a life goal, but they both realized that Darren, 33, had a dream left unfulfilled. He wanted to join the military.

For 15 years he had worked at the Boys and Girls Club of Ottawa as a youth mental health and recreation worker but needed a change.

SA国际影视传媒淢y dream in life was to become a paramedic and I was able to succeed at that,SA国际影视传媒� she said. SA国际影视传媒淗e always wanted to join the military so I said, you know, sometimes you just have to follow your dreams.SA国际影视传媒�

Darren trained and was posted within a few years to Petawawa. She followed, working for a physiotherapy office to help raise their two sons who soon.

They spent about seven years raising a young family at the Ontario base before she caught the itch to join the military. She eventually joined in 2019.

SA国际影视传媒淭he military had always interested me and so I decided to just do it," she said, noting that she wanted to be able to best support her family and her husband. Darren was very supportive, his job with the military was very supportive that his wife was applying and then when I got accepted. They did everything they could to support him and the kids while I was way at training.SA国际影视传媒� 

Last year, the two were given the opportunity to transfer to Yellowknife and found it appealed to them because of the outdoors and similar setting as Petawawa.

Ten years on, the Dungeys are deep-rooted and contented in family life. In October, they spent their first decade as a married couple in Yellowknife with their two sons - nine-years old and seven with a snowy hike in the woods and a dinner at Coyote's.

They similarly look forward to sharing ValentineSA国际影视传媒檚 Day together as one family unit.

"We want to include them and make sure that they're involved in whatever it is we're doing so as special as Valentine's Day is to us it's equally as special to the kids," Darren said. "So we'll make sure that they're a part of it."