Good news. A transition house is opening soon in Yellowknife where people recovering from addictions can live in a sober environment for one to three months. ISA国际影视传媒檓 assuming it will primarily be for people who return north from addictions treatment.
The house will provide safe housing for one to three months to help people reintegrate into society, when they are recovering from alcohol or drug addiction. It will have 24-hour addiction recovery support with staff trained in addictions programming.
People staying in the sober house will be kept from temptation while they work on rebuilding their lives and creating a healthier future. This is crucial when someone is trying to stop drinking.
Stopping drinking is hard, but the hardest part is staying sober afterward.
I have seen so many people go to treatment, stay sober for a while and then revert to drinking or doing drugs. Why is that? Well, because people are still vulnerable when they come back and they often put themselves in temptation, meaning they go where people are using. Whether itSA国际影视传媒檚 because they have no place else to go or because they choose to be in the wrong places.
Stay away from temptation
People in Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) hear this story over and over. Someone comes back from treatment, or simply stops drinking, but still hangs out with their buddies. They say, SA国际影视传媒淚SA国际影视传媒檒l go to the bar or the parties and ISA国际影视传媒檒l just drink pop.SA国际影视传媒�
And this may work for a while, but usually the person starts to drink or do drugs again. ThatSA国际影视传媒檚 because they were still too vulnerable and should have stayed away from temptation. They tell us in treatment to stay away from bars, parties and any place where people are drinking or doing drugs. ThatSA国际影视传媒檚 where the temptation is; where people are using whatever we are addicted to.
How do I know this? Because I drank for a long time and finally when my body was starting to give out, I went to treatment. They told me over and over to stay away from temptation when I got out, so I did. That meant staying away from my friends because all the people I hung out with drank quite a bit too.
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About six months after I sobered up, I went to the Gold Range on a Saturday before the jam started. I sat down with my cousin Terry, and he said, SA国际影视传媒淲hat are you doing here? DidnSA国际影视传媒檛 you quit drinking?SA国际影视传媒� I thought, SA国际影视传媒淵es, what am I doing here?SA国际影视传媒� And I walked out.
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When I went for one drink, I usually ended up closing the bar and going to a party afterwards. Eschia (take it easy eh!)
Spousal support is also very important. One couple were both addicted but desperately wanted to stop using. They had children so they made arrangements to go to treatment one after the other.
The husband went first. When he got back all bright-eyed and bushy-tailed, his wife was on a drunk, so she did not go to treatment. The husband stayed sober for a while, but he never had a chance because of the partying in their home. He soon started using again.
Several months later, they tried again. This time the wife went to treatment. When she came back, he was partying and never went to treatment as planned. She soon started using again. ItSA国际影视传媒檚 a vicious cycle.
We can only imagine what could have happened if the wife was sober and went to treatment when the man came home from the facility. Or the other way around.
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Even people who stop drinking for a long time should stay away from temptation as much as possible. My friend Dave quit drinking for three years. A musician, he decided after three years he could go to the Gold Range jam session and play a few tunes. He said it was awesome and he wasnSA国际影视传媒檛 tempted to drink. So, he did it again, and again, and again.
About the fifth time he played, he started drinking! I asked Dave what happened and he said, SA国际影视传媒淚 donSA国际影视传媒檛 know. After I played for a bit, I was listening to music, talking and laughing with our friends and suddenly, I grabbed someoneSA国际影视传媒檚 drink and downed it.
Dave couldnSA国际影视传媒檛 stop drinking for over a year, but heSA国际影视传媒檚 now been sober for 30 years and never goes to bars.
Residents in early April
The sober house will house up to five people, and the program wants to soon begin accepting applications from people in Yellowknife. Later they will take applicants from all over the NWT.
Only family members will be able to visit residents, and it will be on a case-by-case basis.
The house is a real example of cooperation. The GNWT received money from the federal Transitional Housing Addiction Recovery Program (THARP) to purchase and renovate a house that Housing NWT will maintain. The Salvation Army will run the program that will be funded and overseen by the Department of Health and Social Services.
I donSA国际影视传媒檛 know about you, but ISA国际影视传媒檓 sure glad to see the first sober house opening its doors in YK. Hopefully itSA国际影视传媒檚 the first of many more here and all over the North.
